The Times’s agony aunt’s advice to someone who wrote in complaining that their Spanish boyfriend always reverts to his mother tongue when we get intimate” is hilarious.

A lot of people find the idea of sex with someone who speaks another language incredibly sexy. Not being able to understand a sexual partner creates a sense of otherness” and the tension between physical intimacy and linguistic separation can heighten arousal for both of you.

October 9, 2021 at 6:57am